FRIENDSHIP… MEDICINE FOR SORROWS…
“Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.” Though some natural loners are happy without them, most of us depend greatly on the company of true friends. We all have got many friends but not all of our friends are true friends…
True Friendship is not just a relation it is also a feeling between two hearts. It is the understanding between two souls… When people are asked, “What gives meaning to your life?” Friendship figures at the top of the list.
Hello readers today I am going to talk about a topic which is very important in everybody’s life … And that topic is Friendship . . .
A FRIEND IN NEED IS A FRIEND INDEED…
This saying exclaims us that the friend who helps us in our trouble is a true friend indeed…
FRIEND stands for…
F – Field of Love
R – Root of Joy
I – Island of God
E –End of Sorrow
N – Name of hope
D – Door of Understanding…
A friend is one who knows you as you are, understands where you have been, accepts what you have become, and still, gently allow you to grow…
Friends are easy to get but it is very difficult to get a true friend… It is generally said that when two people are friends for more than 7 years then that friendship lasts lifetime… People who are lucky get true friends… True friends are the one who understand you more than your family, loves you more than your lover and when you commit a mistake then brings you on a right track…There are rules of friendship and whoever follows these rules can never lose a friend because nobody can afford to lose a true friend ..
Although there are many forms of friendship, some of which may vary from place to place, certain characteristics are present in many types of friendship. Such characteristics include affection, sympathy, empathy, honesty, altruism, mutual understanding and compassion, enjoyment of each other’s company, trust, and the ability to be oneself, express one’s feelings, and make mistakes without any fear of judgment from the friend.
Let us have a look at these rules of Friendship:
• Friends should be loyal in both good times and bad.
• Friends should respect the person and not the position or title.
• Friends should keep their word and do what they say they will do.
• Friends should not talk bad about their friends.
• Friends should be honest and not critical.
• Friends should consider your point-of-view before trying to get you to see theirs.
• Friends should offer help without expecting anything in return.
• Friends should not encourage you to violate your morals and principles.
• Friends should tell their own friends how much they value their friendship.
ONE TRUE FRIEND IS EQUAL TO A LIBRARY…
So if you have one, preserve him/her for lifetime..
( International Trainer, Motivator & Coach
Edexcel Level – 4 Btec Professional Award ( UK)
ITOL Diploma in Coaching Excellence (UK) )